The Characteristics

I've been hooked on <我叫金三顺>(My Name is Kim Sam Soon) recently, after "Full House". I think I love to watch Korean dramas, thou they are abit typical haha but those that I love to watch are those that are mixed with a little comedy, not those typical sorrowful ones that are supposed to make u cry buckets, well except for Summer Scent. I don't really fancy Winter Sonata and Autumn in my heart. I mean... How can I resist the hunky male leads in the K dramas.... From the earliest Jang Dong Gun to Song Seong Heon to Jang Hyuk to Jo In Sung to Rain and then lately Hyun Bin.... And of cos the melodic K songs of all the drama also makes me fall head over heels for it, the songs are usually very apt for the particular drama and I can tell you Korea songs are damn nice eventhough I don't understand a single word!




Jang Dong Gun (Top) and Song Seong Heon (Bottom).
From the pix, you can more or less know the kinda guy that I look for, they all have the manly look yet hidden boyish nature. And when they smile, they have the boy-next-door look, especially the latter 4...


But I can't find cute pixs of them flahing their boyish grin, you'll probably only spot them in the shows. And most of them when they smile, all you can see is their pearly grin and the eyes will merge to form a line haha so cute rite??
Especially Rain (right), who's known for his famous cutesy smile!




It's just coincidental that Jo In Sung (left) and Jang Hyuk (further left) has blonde hair in these pixs, it doesn't mean I like blokes. Anyways not all guys look gd in this hair. I think it's gotta do with the looks. Haha


ok I decided not to use the full pix of the guys cos their bods will only make you and erhem me drool more... Yes yes, these guys all have very good build... Once again I would like to emphasize good build doesn't just mean "dua jiak", it means lean but mascular! Oh oh and tall too theses guys are like 180cm and above, that's why they look good in whatever they wear, born clothes hanger. And I tell you K drama lead males don't go for the typical t-shirt jeans look, but very mismatched and loud combination of different color of shirts and pants as well as jackets with jeans, which strikes me fatally! They can wear very flowery pink shirt beneath a white jacket and matches it with jeans, but it looks totally good!
But this is the nicest pix of Hyun Bin I manage to googled, slightly uncovered. Both him and Rain have achieved such great accomplishment in their acting and singing career respectively and know what, they are only 1 yr my senior!! haizzzz

Except for the 1st 2 who usually play they devoted-til-i-die kinda character, the rest usually portray the characters of rich spoilt brat, who comes from some respectable family and are to some extent, bad boys. Yes 男人不坏，女人不爱. I never disputed this phrase. But when it comes to someone they love, they really go all out for her even though not in the totally nice way that most gals would like. And they can get pretty nasty.

So after all the introduction, you know what kinda guys I go for... erhem if you happen to come across any of such guys, please lemme know haha. I know you'll say you'll grab first... but I realise not all girls for the same type of guys. I mean I have a friend who like skinny and nua nua type of pretty boy, someone like perhaps zai zai. And she doesn't like tall guys. So absolutely no conflict of interest here.

Ok so this leads on the tag that I was tagged... hmm sounds weird. Anyways I'm supposed to come up with 8 characteristics of my perfect lover and tag 8 ple to join this "game". I shall skip the 2nd part since I never like to forward chain emails and sms. This works in the same way. It shall stop here. But I thought this topic was kinda interesting so I'll blog on it. But I'm not gonna stick to the rules closely, but instead incorporate into my own entry.

Alright, it's not difficult to actually pick out like 4 characteristics from the above K guys.
Some quick recap:

1. Manly, with a mix of boyish nature.
2. Good build. Please recall my definition of a good build.
3. Good height. For me, at least 175cm
4. Not necessarily a nasty spoilt brat or baddie but definitely not a goody-two-shoe, who listens and obeys me totally or tries to please me to the ultimate.

Ok so these are some of the more superficial criteria based on the outlooks. Actually my guy doesn't have to be exactly dashing or georgeous. If you look closely enough at the 6 above, not all are exactly good looking. But there's just something about them. Charisma or behaviour or something that truely captures me. I mean someone with the looks of Wong Hei (Wang Xi) is good enough as long as generally, everything adds up and that will make him look good... Oh oh and maybe just to add on to the list, I love guys with funky hair! Haha I mean doesn't have to be a punk head to be called funky... but u know the toot toot and hmm plain hairstly just doesn't work for me. But again, funky hair also doesn't work on all people, I guess it's gotta do with the looks AGAIN. haha

Let's move on to the less physical but more of chemisty part.

1. Sporty. Ok this definitely leads to the above point 2, though being sporty doesnt always equate good build. I'm not a sporty person I have to admit but I love sports actually I don't mind going under the sun and sweat out, it's just that I'm lazy haha. I used to play more sports, now I think I really to get that stamina and momentum back. And also because I love to watch soccer, being sporty actually encompasses playing soccer (or basketball also can lah haha). I mean this is not something difficult since most guys love or watch soccer. Hey it isn't too easy to find a gf who watches soccer with you without any complains and who understand the offside rule ok. And best cheer together if we happen to support the same team. :D or quarrel when the teams we support versus each other. Adds abit of spice to life.
   
2. Talented. In any area. But best musically inclined, with singing or musical instruments. Did I mention that I think guys who play the drum well are especially attractive? Electric guitar too. Piano is abit too common but it depends on who the guys is haha. Singing is good so we can KTV and duet together haha.

I believe 2 person must share the same interest to have chemistry. People say opposite attracts but it never happens to me. If we are not on par and have different characters and have different passion, I can't imagine how we get along. And also something for me to admire him about haha. But of cos there must be somthing about the guy apart from physical attraction and being on the same frequency. And I guess these are things that you'll probably find out only when you know the guy more or perhaps only when you start a relationship.

1. He has to be humourous yet serious. This kinda sounds like manly yet boyish. Haha He has to have the ability to make me smile, laugh but yet can't be so playful such that I think he's not serious on what he says. So, serious on things that he needs to and yet inject humour in everyday life. Kinda hard to exlplain yah...
   
2. At least the maturity level has to be there. So basically this would also mean that we have to have the same level of thinking and views in life. Basically a balance of everything and it actually encompass alotta things. I've experienced someone who has different view of life as I do and I think that is the ultimate. Regardless of how nice and sweet he is, if he doesn't think as far/much as me, then basically it hard to communicate on matters of lfie. And I do not just mean normal communication but the more in depth conversations.
   
3. Sense of security is particularly important to me. Especially I can feel rather insecure at times.This doesn't mean he has to be physically there everytime, but I think knowing that the he is there for me as a pillar of strength is good enough and in fact very important. After all I'm not the kinda sticky gal who needs to see him every day or track him down with hourly calls.
4. I actually prefer guys who are abit of a male chauvinistic. I have no qualms about the ability of guys and I never thought it's possible for equality between guys and gals. There are just some things that guys can and gals cannot achieve and of cos vice versa. Ok the reason behind this preference is cos I have a rather strong character so I need someone who can curb me. A guy who can lead me and to be the decision maker, although I want my decisions and suggestions to be respected too. Which is why I say abit of chauvinism, which is still bearable. In fact I can't stand guys who obey their gals too much, that would mean they don't have a mind of their own. And eventually as the gal take things for granted, the episode never ends well.
5. Lastly he has to be understanding and supportive. That includes no jealousy. Of cos on my part I have to reassure him but being understanding makes this alot easier. Especially when I do have quite a fair share of male close friends.
   

Accept me for who I am and I would do the same. Never try to change your guy. If he's not the right one just don't go for him. Some things just cannot be changed, and even when changed, it would come back to haunt you one day. Having said that, all the above might be criterias to be fulfilled but there's nothing perfect in life. I may be a perfectionist (the trait of a virgo) and I can't accept the slightest flaw, at least a flaw to me, but when the right one comes, who knows. Like I always say, I'm looking for MY perfect guy and not THE perfect guy. Therein lies the difference.

And some of you do know, I have a personal fetish for lefty haha