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Wanted to blog for a long time... but either busy or lazy, ok that's nothing new la...
So for those who don't know, I was confirmed (my job) 2 wks ago, that would mean I need to give 1 mth's notice to quit, should I be happy or sad abt tt? Haha, so right now, unless it's overseas opportunities, I won't be applying for any. Work's been pretty ok, many events coming up so will be a lil busier, but life is still ok, I just need more sales. So don't ask me abt work k, it'll be the same old answer.
Had a product test just yesterday, what a relieve. Lots' to study but we got tip offs from sales manager to know what to study, so it's basically regurgitating everything. passing is 85, will be rewarded 50 bucks if we manage to score 95. Got complaints from my team members that I wrote very fast and loud, cos I write very forcefully, stressed them out haha. See basically we're trained in that, with all the essay writings, the memorising and regurgitating... It's not unfamiliar and I realised I still love studying alot. Just love the process of it, Hee madness, the students must feel like killing me!
Intend to take up Korean and blading. Serious. Windsurf might have to wait awhile.

Ok that's a summary of my life recently. Nothing exciting. Need someone to spice up my life. WInkz

Met up w my dear last week. Let's count the years, wow 16 yrs since we 1st knew each other thou we lost contact for some yrs in between. So the topic naturally digressed to guys. I was first informed about 2 guys whom I knew.... One has turned into a gay... Yes, think Brokeback mountain. He does that. I mean I have nothing against gays and their sex life. It's pretty normal, cos everyone has different needs, I don't see them as abnorma, it's just another preference. Just bcos it's not the norm doesn't mean it something wrong or should be fault. But it came as a shock to me cos I knew the guy to be straight and even had a gf. He was badly hurt by her and things turned out this way. Well as long as he's happy with it then so be it.

Another guy fren somehow underwent some major changes after breaking up with his gf and started sleeping ard. Don't think he's hurt but more of deprived. So he sleeps around in Singapore, and overseas as he's often on the road. As cheapo as going to Geylang haha. I guess for some things and for some people. once u start you can't stop. I see it as being addictive here. But well he's happy, he's enjoying it, so what say do the rest of the people have?

And how true it is. 9.5 outta 10 guys ask their gf for sex. I think it's just a natural thing but it just makes me wonder why do they always have this in their mind. Then what my gf said tickled me and I think it made alotta sense and probably gives an answer. Her bf said to her "You don't wanna give it to me now right, ok don't regret, next time don't come and ask me for it" Whahaha laugh like mad can?? Cos according to his statistics (which is true lah), guys have highest sex drive at this age, while girls experience it in their later twenties. So basically it explains everything rite? Sorry dear, I disclosed whatever you told me, but no worries no names mentioned and I don't think anyone I know, knows you nor the people mentioned.

I was pretty disgusted and offended when a fren of mine came to me one day and asked me if I mind having a fling. I wasn't too taken aback at that point of time but thinking about it now made me feel rather degrading. We don't keep on contact often and I don't remember him as a guy who will have flings despite having a gf. But oh well, looks are deceiving. So basically it means he's looking for a fuck buddy. It's not unusual for guys/ girls to engage in such activities but sorry think he probably got the wrong target.

Was watching a variety show that day and Patty Hou said that she can actually stand her bf cheating on her (jay must be feeling so glad and relieved), provided it only involves behaviour (which means having affairs and one night stands) but not feelings. Her reasoning is that it's impossible for guys not to betray their gfs (which I agree, well it could be the other way round too), so betrayal that only invloves the body but not the heart/mind is acceptable. I actually kinda agree with her. I think at the end of the day, as long as you don't get caught, it's ok. Don't be so stupid to "tou chi" yet "bu cha zui ba" haha.
Like I always say : 男人女人都是贱的。基本上，大家都是贱人，分别在于贱到什么程度。
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