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Thursday, April 28, 2005

From Heaven to Hell

It should be a day of celebration. After all my exams had ended! Earlier than most people I know. Yay I was indeed elated. Firstly, because exams are over (duh). Secondly, I finally had a chance to talk to the guy that I had noticed since Year 1. Year 1!!! He's my coursemate but we just didn't converse. Or perhaps once or twice with our mutual friends around. Today, before the paper, we were scrambling through our notes for the very last struggle, at the same table with some mutual friends. Didn't really talk. It was after the paper that we talked.

The venue was at some seminar room and when I was at the door I kinda said "Yay! Exam's over!".

So as he was holding the door, he heard me and asked "Wah, so fast! How come?"

Smilingly "Cos I have only 4 modules and 3 papers! Hee"

"So good. I have two more. One on sat(or fri?) and one next week."

All I managed was "Ohhh". Man!!! I was walking behind him all the while. And he went over to his locker, which was right in front of the exam venue. There was a sudden awkward silence. He reached for his stuff in the locker. My friends had joined me and I left. I left without saying a GOOD LUCK or BYE BYE!!!! WTH!! I can't believe myself!

MELISSA TAY HUIFEN when can u stop being so HUM in front of guys u fancy??? When can u stop acting cool and pretend like u are the least interested when u actually think otherwise??!!!! Blardly useless. So in the end the two things that lifted me up landed me hard on the ground. I've come to realise that talking to him for the first time prolly meant the last time as well. I'm graduating! And I think he is too. I probably won't get to see him again, unless during commencement, if he's graduating that is. How sad. Ok I'm being abit too *flowery* here. And the other thing is that, although my exam's over, it'll probably be my last exams in abit, that is if i decide to pick up books again. I don't wish to leave school. I would gladly take up psychology if someone had sent me packing to perhaps US, without me having to cope with the fees. I had wanted to leave for overseas studying right after JC. But my parents got pretty worried when I broke the news and besides, they would have to cough up alot of money. I was actually on the verge of applying, checked out the schools and the requirements all by myself. For several reasons, I stayed. It's not that I wasn't happy these years but I thought life would be so much different if I had taken the other route. Now it's time. Time to put all these dreams and wishes aside, perhaps only to be realised few years down the road, if I still have the enthusiasm for studying.

If we continue to evade, we will never grow up. Sooner or later, I will have to step into the society one day!!! But just minutes after my paper, a nostalgic vibe hit me. I'm beginning to miss school life eventhough I've yet to leave school, for now. Who knows maybe I have to dabao!! No I don't want this to be the reason I'm staying in school.

=missing U=

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Wednesday, April 27, 2005

I Surrender

I had wanted to say this for a long time. Despite a last paper tml, I still wanna say this. I love Anthony Fedorov!! hahaha He was simply great today!

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Sunday, April 24, 2005

The Red Devil

Final Whistle!

ManU won! Look what i'm doing. I have my first paper tml. And here I am blogging! I'm not done with my revision yet. And before this? I was catching ManU's match!! My bro thought Rooney's goal was a fluke, I thought it was magnificant. And wooo it was Wes Brown who scored!!! Heinze looks like he's in terrible pain, from the way he had landed, things don't look optimistic. I hope it's just a sprain so that he may be back in time for the FA cup. I want O'Shea back.... F care what "The Chelsea Fan" has to say. I don't even know who the hell he is. Yes and mad props to all the die hard ManU fans out there!! I will never ever, in my lifetime forget the times we skipped school to attend the ManU match when they were in town. And how we frantically covered every corner of our school when Beckham, a then Red Devil, visited.

Alright this shall be a short note before I'm back to post after my exams, which by the way ends on Thursday. It'll be over soon!


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Thursday, April 21, 2005

Live on MyewTV

After the 1-0 defeat to Everton this morning....

Ban The Man
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"I see the ball I see the ball.... Fuck! Why did I slip again!? I'm just like a banana peel on ice, it must be those boots! Get Nike to design a new one! Well, I've always liked to put my weight on the defenders when the ball comes in, they're probably just not sturdy enough."


The Stunt Boy
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"You know, I pull all those stunts to lose the opponents. I'm too quick for them, they simply can't catch up with me. But sometimes I get lost in my own moves..."


The Naive Brother
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"Quinton was taking fucking long to come on. I was getting bored and kicked the ball at the advertising board. You know I'm a defender, I don't aim well like Ruud. It was an accident that the ball flew and hit the spectator!"


The Red-Head who saw Red
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"It was getting frustrating. I can't get the ball, I had to get Kilbane at least! And I guessed Gary must be feeling bored all alone in the dressing room, I decided to just leave the pitch and stick around my mate. He needed me."


The Man who lost IT
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"Who does that Scottish Moyes thinks he is? Absolutely disguisting! Don't ask me about the match. Paul did not deserve that. That fucking referee."

=Live on MyewTV=
Guest Reporter

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Saturday, April 16, 2005

Stress Relieve....

Woo I haven been posting! But it's the exam season and everyone's mugging.... So am I although I haven been productive at all! But at least picked up momentum today... Finally! With one week's grace left... It helps that I have only three papers to sit for and the pain will be over in four days. But it doesn't help that I have alot (left) to cover...... God bless!! So I have to hit my books again after this blog entry. Haha after all it's the last such torture I'll ever experience. Not that I'm relieved it is though....

So putting the exams aside, I managed to allocate some time to attend my friends' 21st birthday. Okay... not allocate to be exact, i just went lah, heck care exam..... Yup it was my friends', cos it was a combined birthday celebration. I know both the birthday girl and boy. Just to mention, the girl's an air stewardess at SIA. The celebration was held at Dubliner Irish Pub, a rather cozy restaurant pub with tall back cushion sofa. Nothing much to talk about there just like any other birthday parties, everyone has to self entertain haha. But it still felt rather nice, like a chummy gathering. Something worth (or maybe not) mentioning was that one of our friends insisted on arranging the cake display cause he had bought some cream puffs and jellies along with the cake so what he did was to arrange the 12 cream puffs along the perimeter of the green tea cake. As if it wasn't bad enough, he topped the cake with the jellies.... And he insisted it was an unique arrangement (his words: 特别).... Another friend was like yah.... unique.... uniquely ugly (her words: 特别...特别难看!)

So having spent my afternoon at the celebration, I decided to spend my (less than) later half of the day studying together with my friends. I felt pretty weird cos I was still in my party clothes with make up on... I wouldn't be surprised if someone had thought why this bitch is dressed like that and here to study! Study of cos nothing to talk about lah... But when we went for dinner (which was like shortly an hour after I arrived), we saw this guy sitting opposite us with his pants hanging at his groin area, revealing his whole butt, with undies on though. So we started talking crap, about him not realising that his shimmering silver belt was loose and how his pants will fall off once he stood up. Or someone should go over to him and ask "Who's 50 bucks is that?" to see his reaction when he stood up. My friend speculated that he had suspenders under his pullover that hung on to the falling pants, or perhaps the pants was taped to his thighs... Then to our dismay, the pants didn't fall off when he arised. Too bad I didn't have a camera nor a camera phone then to capture his butt. (ZY, u'r not alone here, I dun hv one too but I'm gonna get one!!) Hmmm which reminds me of another funny incident back in VJ... where XXX had his pants pulled off by the guys in the gym alley. Haha stripped to his undies and was later laughed at the condition of his undies LOL!! Yellowish?? Lak sek?? or wat?? haha And some group of people happened to pass by the gym alley cos it was a common passage to the toilet and there he was caught by so many....
*Take no offence ah XXX... it's solely for 娱乐效果(yu le xiao guo)!!*

Some incidents just remain so vivid huh! haha

=Unforgettable Times=
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Tuesday, April 12, 2005

M for MeLis

Epilogue:
Wasn't supposed to blog but I decided to anyway. Damn! I've been actively reading blogs for the past few days, all thx to sources by L@@k
Finally handed in my project. In the end I was the one doing the compiling, printing, binding and submission. Maybe I've got myself to blame. Firstly, I can't just leave things undone! After all it's my project! I can't just heck care like anyone else. And secondly, I just don't trust that they'll do a good job, and bother to follow the 100 instructions that the lecturer had put up. I just don't trust anybody except for myself I guess.

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I can't believe there are actually some dumb ass out there who can't pronounce my name. Yes my name is Melissa if u have not realised... It's printed on my birth cert and ID card; I can't change it. But otherwise all other cards that I have bear the name Melis. I prefer to be called Melis. Some friends who know me only by this name thought it was some fanciful name that I came up with....No. It was actually invented by a certain secondary school classmate. She thought Melissa was too lengthy cos it has three syllabus. Well not that Melis is any shorter... Just one syllabus short. Just like the abbreviating Andrew to Andy... Makes no sense at all! But I liked Melis, it's kinda unique, though there are still a half dozen people out there with this name. But a dozen probably goes by the name Melissa, which I feel sounds very passé. Anyway I've kept the name Melis with me since then and my friends usually know me by this name unless they'r some hi-bye friends or aquaintances (that I never wish to see again?).

M I glad that my friend then did not decide to call me Mel! I hate that name. I just feel it doesn't suit me and I hate to be called that, though it's probably the most common abbreviation for Melissa. That's how i differentiate myself from fellow friend(s) with the same name.

I had this physics tutor that pronounced my name as Mi-Li-Sah or Mel-Li-Sah on certain days. She just couldn't pronounce my name! It's kinda dumb cos it's way toooo off! Haven't she heard of this name in her entire life? She was the same tutor who told me and my friend very seriously in class that we shouldn't be dating at this age cause it will affect our grades adversely. And all because the two of us were chitchatting throughout the whole lesson! DUH! On another occasion where both of us were coincidentally absent from school, she thought we went on a date, thank to the rubbish that the class made up...And she told the class she's gonna inform our parents. Haha she was probably joking about this but she's this kinda blur and gullible teacher who'll take your words for everything. But she makes a fun tutor lah... lol

Anyway back to Melissa, I would like people out there to know it's correct pronunciation. It's pronounced as Mer-Li-Ser.... But I was called Mah-Li-Ser or Mer-Li-Sah on various occasions and worse Mah-Li-Sah!!! Wah lao! I really can't stand it! These people just can't pronounce my name! It's not like it's so tongue twisting like Cercania or what... So if u've been pronouncing my name in all the wrong ways, I probably did not correct u for fear of malu-ating u.... Now u know! Keke Get it right the next time!


=Mer-Li-Ser=
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Monday, April 11, 2005

Acute detector

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Outta of the 5 tremors that Singapore had felt due to the earthquake at our dear neighbour, Sumatra, I felt 4. Ironically, I missed the one that had led to the deadly tsunami. I'm not so insane to say I'm a sucker for it but u've really gotta experience for urself to know how it really feels. I've been asked to describe how it feels... I just can't put it into words.

I felt the tremors twice yesterday.

First Tremor at 0630pm

over at home
*sitting on e floor, same position as when i felt e quake e previous time*
me: eh Kor, the floor's shaking!
Kor: Siao ah, u think got so many earthquake meh??

*maybe i was too paranoid.... then seconds later*
Kor : ehh.... got abit lah....
me : Dee, quick sit on the floor, feel the tremor for u haven felt it before
Dee: *quickly sat on the floor* Dun have liao lah... By this time still got meh? *gets up and sat
on sofa*
me : *to Kor, poking his arm* Say I siao lah! U retarded lah, cannot feel tremors one, for a
moment, u must have thought it was ur leg feeling numb again!
*quickly changes MSN nick to "I felt the tremors again.... Or am I hallucinating??"

over sms
Ling: Eh just now got earthquake again huh?
me: Yah. I have become the quake device. Everytime got earthquake u'll ask me...
Ling: Ya! wanted to make sure.. Only I felt it! And I thought it was my heart thumping again!
So I din bother to tell me sis.. Aiyah wasted.. Haha..
me: I was in e same position lah. My bro stil say i ah siao.
Ling: I also in same position! That's y i thought i think too much... Hahaha. Not siao lah
Hahaha... Aiyo.. Dunno how many ple going to die again..
Ah Chuan: Eh you were not hallucinating... Really got earthquake lah..
me : I know, and I have become the quake detector
Ah Chuan: Haha... That's useful lor...

Second Tremor at 0130am

over at home
*darts outta room, see if anyone's up, esp retarded Kor so I can prove my point.*
*Everyone's asleep... returns to room disappointed...*
*Quickly changes MSN nick to " Believe me! I felt the tremors again!"

over at MSN
QR: quake??
QR: got earthquake meh? Was it in the news?
QR: U living in earthquake prone area...
Ah Chuan : u felt it again?
Un-named: Ur place shook again?
Mel: got shake meh? U mean got earthquake?
Ah Chuan: Hope later u don't slp and feel the bed shaking...
me: I'll go check on CNA
Ah Chuan: Don't worry, think it's nothing serious lah
me: Not worried lah, just wanna confirm if this detector is working right lol

*How can ple not know there's a quake? when there really is one??*

over sms
me: I felt the quake again...
Ling: Haha thx detector! I was aslp!


Ok y did i even bother to give an account of what happened??!! Anyway to prove my point, I have become the earthquake detector. The previous times whenever i felt a tremor it would take me some time to come to my senses and realise it wasn't me having hallucination or feeling giddy. But i can now say that I am able to identify a quake tremor from the very instance I feel it. These things come with experience ya know?

P/S. To know or confirm if there's an earthquake, pls call or sms or msn. It'll probably give you an accurate account if the device is functioninf well, unless it's placed away from the detection region...

=Earthquake device signing off=
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Saturday, April 09, 2005

SUAY-est gal on earth PARTIII

Alrite here's e third installment.

But first of all, I'd like to say a HUGE thank you to everyone for your kind comments and to everyone who had showed concerned over MSN. Love u all! haha

And SPECIAL thanks to my courageous friends, ZY n CY for their "路见不平,拔刀相助" spirit. As you have all probably guessed, they both sent sms-es to the now popular Mr. V.

Time: 8th April, 11 plus pm
ZY: Go toilet leh


Time: 9th April, 1plus am
CY : I meet u tml 12 at town k
Mr. V : Who's this? My handphone got problem...
CY : Jane
Mr. V : Jane? Too many girls interested in me... I don't recall which Jane you
are...
CY : Huh erm...Paiseh think I got the wrong person liao. Sorrie
Mr. V : How u get my number in the first place? U owe me a treat for disturbing me
so late at night!
CY : Key wrongly lah. Was in sleepy mode. Sorrie for disturbing u
Mr. V : So many stalkers nowadays... Singapore getting to be a dangerous place...Where u stay? U owe me one. I'll send gangsters to your house :p

*No reply from CY* Minutes later...

Mr. V : Don't act blur. I'll call the telecome coy tomorrow n check who u r. Maybe some
police will come knocking on your door sometime soon. Pacify me or wait :)

*No reply from CY again* No more minutes later lah... Mr. V oso nv sms back...


Nothing happening, fell short of expectations... But then from Mr. V's replies, CY concluded that the supposedly wrongly sent msg to me in PARTII wasn't a mistake after all. Just trying to grab some attention. Anyway I smell something fishy. "Take 55 n drop at e main road after e traffic light" There's like so many main roads and more traffic lights along the 55 route. Don't try to smoke me! Yes and I concluded that he thinks he's damn popular and whoever did not reject his approach carries a torch for him. And that instead of him being the stalker, everyone else is.

He's probably some blardy lonely guy living in his own fantasy world thinking the whole world's in love with him, being a dashing, eloquent and successful guy. I told u he's living in a world of HIS OWN. F*** him! (I dun like to be seen using vulgarities) Such a loser. He probably has been tryin to pick girls up and for the 100th time, has failed.

=Like Rubbish attracts Flies=
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Friday, April 08, 2005

Zi Lian rite? Muahahaha


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Taken while I was straightening my hair. Credits to Ms. LYH

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SUAY-est gal on earth PARTII

Today 09:25:02pm sms fr him: Take 55 n drop at e main road after e traffic light. I pick u up there. If u arrive early wait a while.

*saw his name in my inbox...-_-"*

Apparently it looks like an sms to e wrong person. But I dunno his ulterior motives lol ok la mayb i think too much. I din reply (OF COS!). He din send a follow up to say tt he sent e sms by mistake. He's a freak!


=I hope there's no PARTIII=
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Thursday, April 07, 2005

Photo Installation 1

Photo Installation 1

This is a normal picture...

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Photo Installation 2

Photo Installation 2

This is an act stupid picture

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SUAY-est gal on earth

Realised I haven been posting... I dunno y either, busy? sick? Yah i'm still pretty ill was running a slight fever earlier but now I'm fit enough to post... Tot I was slowly recoverin n felt alrite this morn but I guess I was under the sun for too long today afternoon. Maybe I shud just give up the idea of letting my own immune system fight the virus and heed my friends' advice to visit a doc.... Well i'll c how it goes tml... U noe sometimes when u know too much abt viruses, visiting doctors, drugs and antibiotics, u are more concerned with the damage they bring...

Anyway I'm here to share sthg SUAY... I think i'm reali suay to kena these kinda stuff... Alright I was taking 74 from my hm to sch today morn and i alighted at Dover to cross the bridge near NUH to get to NUS. So after I got down and was waiting at the traffic junction, this guy approached me and asked if i was heading for NUS I tot he wanted some directions. Then he introduced himself and carried on to strike a conversation with me, saying he seldom see ple take 74 from hougang all the way to NUS so it's nice to noe ple lidat... *Rubbish* He added that he's a 4th yr SOC student, asked me what fac, what yr i m in and m i considering honours etc. N he said he's attending this "secret" meeting with his grp mates to discuss some project for some competition (which i dun bother remembering). He said if they win they clinch abt 10k of cash prize and that their grp are bound to be in top 3. Trying to impress me ah? Sorry i'm not impressed AT ALL.

Just as we were crossing the bridge he asked for my hp no... I was like errrr.... I was wondering if i shud jus come up with some number but i figured I'm gonna change number soon and it wouldn't hurt to give. Then he gave me a miss call *I hv to save his ah...* N for a moment I was glad I gave him my real number, otherwise it'll be damn malu. I jus dunno how to reject... OK lah my fault here. In case u think i was over the moon that someone approached me, sorry to disappoint, he isn't erm gd lookin AT ALL and he's like... ard my height? U all know I dun go for such guy ya... If he's some dashing dude with the height, the build and tan and the funky hair den yah i'm on clouds 9. But think again such a guy wun approach me Ok i noe myself!

N he said he'll be stayin in sch til 6 plus or 7 so if i'm staying late n want someone to go hm with can give him a call. *smiles n shrugs* He walked with me to the canteen and went to get some food while i went for my proj meeting. Ok so i tot gd everything's over n i prolly wun c him again *I hope!*

05:56:45pm when i was back hm n abt to take my nap, sms fr him: Hi, have u gone home to sleep or r u waiting still for me? My secret meeting just ended :)

*-_-" siao i nv reply him*

06:34:09pm when I just got to slp, sms fr him: i'm done with my packing up, going home now. Ok, u hv my number, call me n i'll reply if i'm free, but please don't become a stalker n call me 50 times a day. Cya!

*-_-""""" wah lau he really siao ah!!*

WTH!! he makes it sound as if i'm the one who approached him and asked him for his number!! KNS ask him go die lah.... Wah lau really BTH him!!!


=Fuming=
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Sunday, April 03, 2005

I'm tired...

What a tiring day... Rehearsal today was a mental torment. It didn't help that I'm sick.

We were doing this "Hotseat" thingy, a drama term where an actor, in his character, will take e seat and be questioned on his/her role, asked to justify and reason certain situations/things revolving his character. And after that, he'll be thrown into scenarios whereby the director only gives a description to the situation. Other actors will come on to help on improvisation, so the actor basically has to talk, act and react in the best way his character would.

I was slapped. I cried. It worsened my flu... I love Hotseat and all these, being somewhat "pre-show", meaning that these things will not be performed on stage but to help us feel for and understand our character better, really helped me a great deal today. I feel more strongly for my role. Alot more.

And me and a fellow actor sorta came to terms with our relationship and finally it all make sense. Like pieces of Jig Saw slowly falling into place... What e audience eventually see will only be e completed puzzle.

I'm turning in... Reali tired. Haven't slpt this early for ages! And I have myself to blame, for attending a bdae party til late yest, after my rehearsal.... Planned to leave early but all e talkin and KTV made me stay. haha well e guys there can sing! ermmz some others r rather cute haha. Makes me wonder... What happened to my friends?? lol Could tt be e reason i'm stil unattached? hahaha ok la j/j. N did i mention that her theme were pink for ladies and black for guys. I think I overlooked tt n i ended up being so conspicuous in green!!! N they all surrounded me with a loud "ORH...."

=Get well soon=
Melis

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Friday, April 01, 2005

Bitching session

There was so much bitching goin on today. From me, to my friends, to my TA!

*For the benefit of non-NUS students, TA refers to Teaching Assistant, or simply tutor.

It was pretty exciting and farnie discussing abt 小白,小黑 and 大黑 over lecture. Haha secret code between e 2 of us. No, no prize for guessing who they are... Anyways e ple who read my blog (if there's any, tt is) wun noe who they r. As we were deeply engrossed in our discussion, our TA was helping the Lecturer do a demo. Somehow the lecturer commented that my TA was stronger so he has to carry out e demo... My TA, who was standing a step behind e lecturer, made a gesture of placing 3 fingers on his forehead (looks lidat -_-''' if u dun get me) and then another action with his 5 fingers(indicating e crow flying past). The whole LT burst out in laughters haha n e stupid lecturer din noe what was going on cos he cun c what e TA did!I bet he din understd even if he saw! Arghhh!!! Wahaha

So after the lect, we went to ask e TA some stuff (more of my frens asking lah). So e we were toking and one of e gal told e TA tt she feels she doesn't learn anything during e lect! My TA was like shhh come closer haha n he say "Yah actually u all can dun attend his lecture one... E notes quite self contained..." WAH!! TA said tt haha. Den we told him e lecturer v waste time... owas carry out demos unsuccessfully and we cant c! So much time is spent on watching video clips during lect... And he can play e video which explains e lect n he'll skip tt part... arghh!! den attend lect for wat! TA: "Yah lah he's lidat one lah.... but he's better now oreadi..." when asked where's e lecturer fr, TA: "He's fr china but he spent many yrs in UK n US, but dunno y his eng stil lidat haha" Then we asked him a qns regarding e final CA format n he asked y did we not approach e lecturer? OKie cos e lecturer owas direct our qns n email to our TA... everytime i email e lecturer n CC to TA, it's e TA who replies... TA: "Yah lah! My mail box everyday also flooded!" SO he playfully suggested we tok over tea rather den bitch outside e LT haha. He's a VVVV nice TA, answer each and every qns, conducts tut well, thou he can get abit lame at times! lol but he's e oni TA for e module and he has to go thru e same tutorial 9 times a wk... explainin e same stuff over n over again! Poor TA...

Yah so we (my frens rather) actually went up to him to ask abt e peer appraisal. He offered to help, cos there's this problematic gal in my fren's gp. Let's jus call e gal "B" (oops i dun mean bitch =p). And anyways this B is like commander of e gp, without consulting e members, she'll assign this n tt... She bore this personal grudge against one of e member and she actually assigned 9 chapters (outta 20) to this gal while leaving 3 of e easiest chapts to herself! N so as e poor gal wasn't informed of wat to do cos she had missed e 1st meetin(n B had promised to inform her of e status of e proj), she emailed B nicely to ask for work n to be told what is going on... B sent an email to everyone but directed to tt gal "Can u pls stop BITCHING abt me not doing this n tt??" yesh w BITCHING in caps!! so e poor gal did reply. She did her part n emailed B to ask for comments (since B is full of comments) n B actually told her "Can u pls do ur work urself n stop asking me abt every single thing" Damn! WTH...n she wud purposely choose proj meeting when e poor gal cant make it.

N on her own part, B said she din un wat she had to do and couldnt source for info... so she pushed her work to another member. Den she told e gal she was tired n busy so she "volunteered" to compile for she didnt do her part. N yes she had e cheek to tell e gal tt she went out n was tired so she KO when reached hm at 9... N e nx time, she said she stayed up til 3am. IF u tot she had trip.. U CALL TT NO TIME!! In e end what was supposed to be compiled was more of a cut n paste.

Many other small actions tt i dun wanna mention but when put together, they'r all magnified... U'll noe how self-centred she is.

I tot having a MIA person in my gp is bad enuf, but well like another fren said at least u dun hv to put up w a MIA person, jus say he/she had nv contributed. So true..

So to end off with an account of my own encounter w B... Was takin a same module as her last sem. I din noe her at all but my fren knew her briefly. So she actually approached us to form a gp with another 2 guys. Few wks later, w/o informing us beforehand, she told my fren tt she had now joined another gp. Damn! she's e one who approached us! N she refused to leave e new gp, cos apparently there's a v gd lookin cute guy there. So wat she offered to my fren was "u all 2 can come over my gp if u wan lah but lidat e 2 guys i dunno how" It's like not offering any solution! So I decided we shud leave e gp n e guys apparently left too. I heard fr my fren tt B wanted to pull e same stunt for this proj too ie to change gp, after e 1st meeting. But my fren talked her outta it. So I was REALLY glad i wasn't in e same gp as her! Given my character I dun think I wud hv put up w her.

Ok nuff said. So after e session w my TA, me n my fren went for tea. And it was another round of bitching, abt friends and relationships haha.

Den on my way home, met another fren, a fellow life sci student and we bitched abt e course and e job prospect! Wahahaa

Tt's ALOTTA bitching in a day! Phew! But like my fren said, "Bitching is a gd form of stress release" haha thumbs up!

Lastly thx to all those who shared n participated in this bitching session today! lol esp u, sweetie... thx for listening to all I hv to say... Such a shame I din get to noe u better earlier... But it's all not too late rite now! Muacks!

=Bitching abt bitches, does tt make me a bitch too?=
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